Monday, January 25, 2010

words can not describe, but i'll try... write to you about a truly glorious weekend.
in trying to describe it in a nut shell, i could say they swept me away like on the ya-ya sistehood movie...or it is like i was in the secret life of bees movie-living amongst amazing women who love me so much. i love them. they inspire me. each and every single one of them.

of course, for the sake of respect to mr. leif...he is the reason that i invited these 4 AMAZING women came down to see me this past weekend.

you see...he had to stay in st. louis for the weekend because there were some big things going on at his project for work...
and i just couldn't be alone :)

from left to right: my momma, mom(2) (mr. leif's mom), my aunt joan, & my aunt marce
it only makes sense to give you a little preview of my 2 weeks leading up to this weekend...
  • 10-12 hour days at work
  • at least 2-3 hours of homework at night
  • class 2 nights a week
  • having to miss bible study because of the previous 3 things
  • pretty much a recluse in my own home...and for those of you that know me well, you know that i thrive to be around people, friends, laughing, hanging out, etc.

so, based on those details...i was about 87.3% ready to 'throw in the towl', yep ready to either quit my job or quit my masters a quitter?? not usually...but that was about to be the reality of my response to the overload of stress.

i only share that with you because i have to say that after these 4 women left on sunday...i felt like i had been swept off of my feet and taken to some sunny island for a retreat. yes, they listened to me, gave me advice, and loved me.

moving on.

this is my say we connected so well this weekend would be an understatement. she and i are so alike. we knew this. but it was made clear throuhgout the whole weekend that we are...

'like mother-like daughter'

  • she drives fast - i drive fast
  • she loves music and is mesmorized by a good piano man - music is my passion
  • she loves to sing, out loud - i love to sing out loud, with a pretend microphone too
  • she is fond of red wine - i am totally a wino as well
  • she is never home and always on the go - i am in more clubs, organizations, bible studies, masters classes then i can count on 1 hand
  • she likes ice cream - i like ice cream
  • she is competitive - i am competitive
  • she likes to have a good time - i love me a good time
we started it off on friday night by going to thomas.
our night quickly progress into deep of course picking out music. i didn't realize my momma(2) was this into music too! she totally rocked on picking out playlist after playlist for....
the guy below, the piano man at thomas :)
see, told you my mom is mesmorized by music. she had to watch those keys move!

around midnight we headed home to my big sissy.
i know i are thinkin, "what??? she flew in from san diego with little gingie!?!?"
nope. sad face.
we skyped with her....into the weeee hours of the morning :)!!!!!
all five of us sprawled out on my bed ooooing and ahhhhhhhing over little chub chub :)
i miss my sissy so much.

a 2:30 lunch at hoolihans.
yep at 2:30 we finally left the house...
we totally slumber partied it up and lounged around all moring in our pj's.......eating mom's bran muffins :)
after was on to parkville!
such a cute town, and only 15 minutes away!
although i am not this crazy fanatic western fan...(my bff amanda is...kinda)...i truly fell in love with spagetti western. go on. click that isn't the store's website but it takes you to some one else's rad blog...and you see more about this crazy amazing store.
it's filled with vintage western type stuff. and it is cool. so very cool. and it is cheap. me like cheap.
my momma got the cutest vintage dress, $6 and $10 for gingie, and marce snagged a coon hat for baby hudson!!!!
ok, look close in this picture...see the lady with the red vest? that's the owner. she is so neat. her husband is a bass guitarist in a band...and once a month they open their shop up and block of the street in front for a huge concert...and supposedly it's loads of fun.
can't wait!
i may or may not have gotten a FAB piece of furniture from this store...
it could be green...and totally antiquish/vintagish....
have i mentioned yet how much i love my aunts and mom(s)....oh, i do i do i do.
moving on...
...with 2 new grammies on our hands (momma and aunt marce) we could NOT simply miss out on this cute store...i prefer to call it a vintage store (although its not vintage, it just sounds better then 'used' items)
never-the-less....i am a queen of used items. my hosue is filled with them.
re-use / recycle baby. although, i am not as passionate, whoops, about the recyling part.
see them!?!??!? immensely searching for the perfect buy... or should i say buy(s) :) should go here! i will take you! colette, you are coming with us!
while the grammies were getting their toy-purchasing fix, my mom(2) and aunt joan headed over to this sweet wine house.

we had a cute little nook upstairs. wine and cheese, and a fabulous german beer was consumed...oh yeah, and some deep conversation :)
and guess what.
this was the place that mr. leif took me to for our 3 year anniversary when he popped the supprise of "hey baby pack your bags, we are goin to puerto rico in 3 days."
did you know i love mr. leif? i do i do i do

back to the city...
from there, we fufilled the lingering question of "how amazing is this chocolate bag that you are raving about lindsey?...yep. we headed to mccormick and schmicks
marce got salmon. cold and pink. marce and i share the same pallet, so you can probably imagine the laughs we had over her non-salivating mouth as this came out. don't worry the others are not picky and it was devoured :)
behold. (a very bad picture of) the chocolate bag...
and then you break it all up and eat it. heaven to the tongue. totally.
and ok, so the following 3 pictures i couldn't leave out...i thought it would be the perfect glimpse for you, my readers, to see and understand the rest of our amazing evening we had back at my house... :)

sunday... even though this post is becoming ginormous, i can't scrimp on sunday. i have been typing thean backspacing, then typing then backspacing because i don't know how to describe the beauty of our church. so i am just going to say Oak Hills is amazing. i can't not share with you some of the amazing things we walked away from church with. and the grace-filled moment in it, was that everything pastor russ preached was fufilling our deep conversations that we were having throughout the weekend. God works in mysterious ways, ey?!?!

taken straight from pastor russ:

  • "There is an ongoingness to the Lord’s provision in our lives that assures us that He has more than enough to meet our needs. But with that comes another pledge that He will not give it to us all at once. He gives us what we need when we need it." so....“When you pray, say… ‘Give us each day our daily bread’” (Luke 11:2-3)
  • and he quoted Piper...“Today's mercies are not designed to carry tomorrow's burdens. There will be mercies tomorrow for that. Today's mercies are for today's burdens. The strength to live tomorrow will be given tomorrow, not today. And it will be given. Our task today is not to have the strength needed for tomorrow's burdens. Our task today is to live by the mercies given for today, and to believe that there will be new mercies for tomorrow. Today's mercies do not include strength for tomorrow; they include faith that tomorrow's unseen mercies will be sufficient for tomorrow.”
  • " Even more, God opposes this. When we pray, “God, load me up today for all the burdens and pain I’m going to face this year,” what are we after? Control? Independence? Self-confidence? God
    doesn’t want controlling, independent self-confidence to be your strength for today and bright hope for tomorrow. He has something much more wonderful and sufficient in mind for you—the steadfast love of the Lord which never ceases and His mercies which never end, but instead are new every morning. It is a mercy in itself that He calls you to a life of daily dependence upon Him, lest you forget you needed Him in the first place."

amen. and amen.

thank you momma, mom(2), aunt joan, and aunt marce. i love you....see you feb 26th??? hehehe


  1. oh, wonderful!! I'm SO glad you got to have such an amazing, wine-and-chocolate deep-discussion too-much-fun filled weekend. You TOTALLY deserve some fun, you hard-working girl you. And HOORAY for not being alone! My heart just breaks for you being away from your mr. so much, and it makes me happy that you just got to enjoy and be encouraged with these women. sounds amazing indeed!!

    I miss your mom and your aunts... they were always so lovely to be around. Tell them I said HI!! :)

  2. it's a good thing that this computer screen can't catch my tears like the pages of a book do and get all smudgy, because my beloved sissy, I am still crying while i type, and I wouldn't want to smear your beautiful words! you are such an amazing Godly woman and it's so awesome to see how He is working in your life! I can't help but be a little jealous that you got to hang out with the yaya's oh those dear aunties of ours!thanks for documenting! we're so lucky(blessed). xxxxxxxxxxx liza

  3. we can learn from young and "old", as I had a truly rewarding and freeing weekend. you inspire me to be positive. with lack of sleep i usually have jet lag for a few days but the time with you didn't rob me but fortified me! I know that may sound corny, ( ha, ha, from a farm girl) you and the women i had the pleasure to spend the weekend with filled my Bucket! I love you lindsey and am praying for you. this morning my devotion was from John 1 : 16 and of his fulness have all we received. Come, believer, and get all thy need supplied; ask largely, and thou shalt receive largely, for this "fulness" is inexhaustible, and is treasured up where all the needy may reach it, even in Jesus, Immanuel-- God with us. Goodnight Aunt Jo